How To Get A Guy’s Attention Without Talking To Him (12 Tips You Must Follow)
There are many ways to reel in a man, although thanks to social media platforms nowadays, some women believe that being revealing and showing off legs or wearing low-cut tops is the secret. We want to inform our fellow girl gang that all that is totally bogus!
Yes, some women might be striving to look like the Kardashian-Jenner clan, but in real life, things do not work that way.
We get it, love nowadays is not easy, and some of us end up crushing on men that we believe are out of our league and don’t even know that we exist, but that could rapidly change with just the right tips — and they don’t involve being too revealing with what we wear.
These subtle dating strategies will attract the right attention and Mr. Right, which is ultimately what every woman wants.
We do not want any woman to feel like they are invisible to the man they are crushing on, because we know how disappointing that can be, so here are some important ways to get him to notice you without having to open your mouth or be OTT.
1. Get A Little Bit Closer
This one is for the woman who knows her crush relatively well, as well as for the one who doesn’t.
All you must do is get in close proximity to him whenever you can. Do not come off as desperate, but if you can get close to him, and break the touching barrier as well, his attention will be yours.
Maybe he dropped something onto the floor, so you retrieved it for him and gave him a soft pat on the arm, or maybe you’re friends and decided to graze his arm during the conversation.
Just a light touch will have a man smitten and thinking of you, but make sure you don’t overdo it!
2. Attract Him With Some Irresistible Red
Just like a red Ferrari, what man can resist a woman who is rocking the color of love?
Ladies, we suggest that when you dress up in the morning and pamper yourself, use the color red to your advantage. Whether it be a red dress, red top, red lipstick, or red heels, this color will get you red-hot attention.
Men are visual, so if they see a woman wearing red clothing or scarlet lipstick, they will be enticed and intrigued. Who could avoid looking at you strut your stuff when you are wearing a bright red color? It pulls attention your way. Cupid may strike and he may just fall in love at first sight.
3. Act Clumsy And Silly
One way you are bound to get a man’s attention effortlessly is by acting silly and clumsy when he is close to you.
You do not have to flirt heavily to get his attention. Men can notice from a mile away when a woman is playful and cool.
If a guy sees that you can be silly, even in the most serious establishments, like at school or in the workplace, there is little reason for him to overlook you. You might even want to dance in the streets like Rachel McAdams in The Notebook!
Another way you’ll get his attention is by purposely acting clumsy. Did you suddenly drop your purse and everything came flooding out? Superman may just notice and he will laugh and find it super-adorable.
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4. All Of A Sudden, She’s Cheering For His Team
Switch up the princess vibe and be a go-getter! Ladies, what man can resist a cheerleader, especially one for his much-loved NFL team? None.
He will not be able to resist your spell if you are sitting near him at a sports bar and cheering on his beloved team with all your might, we promise.
Behaving in this way will certainly please him, so do not be surprised if his eyes are on you all night instead of on the game. Men love women who are into sports and who can be in the same room with the boys cheering on his team.
5. Keep In Touch On Social Media
Adding the guy you are crushing on to your social media followers might just give you the confidence you need to interact with him in person.
This man you like might only know you by name, or not at all, or you might be friends, but whatever the case, one way to get his attention, without even talking to him, is to make sure you add him on social media. Why? It is an effective way for a man to get to know you: he will see your interests and learn about you through your photos.
Some women see a man that they find attractive and hesitate to press the “send request” button later when actually, a man will see it as a good sign. It’s a sign of confidence. Adding him is like saying, “Hey, I exist!” without having to.
6. Purposely Go Out With Other Men
Men place a higher value on something when they actually need to work for it, so if you’re playing hard to get by going out with other men and keeping him in the know, you’re on the right track.
You do not want to act desperate since that will not get you positive attention, so instead of focusing only on flirting with him, expand your pool of men and go on dates with other men, too.
If he knows you, and you follow each other on social media, use it as leverage to show off what you’re doing on your Saturday nights. Or maybe play the telephone game and tell one of his friends you have a date (because it will certainly reach his ears). He will sense competition, and any man loves that.
7. Gets Dolled Up Regularly
Yes, men love women who are natural and do not cake their faces with makeup, but if you always show up to work or to dinner looking fabulous with your best face on and statement clothing, any man will notice the effort you put into your appearance. Just think of Blair in Gossip Girl. She always looked her best and the flirty Chuck Bass noticed her in a sea full of women.
Getting dolled up does not go unnoticed as it comes with a certain dose of confidence that men find truly irresistible. Attraction at first sight is a thing, ladies.
8. Shows Off Her Girls Night Out
Men are attracted to the thrill of the chase, so if you’re chasing after him, you can forget about him chasing you.
You want to show him that you can live your life without him, and the best way to do so is by living your best life with your main girls by your side.
Again, whether it is a man who barely knows you or a friend you’re crushing over, if you are out with the girls and having a ball while he is seated across the restaurant, his eyes will veer towards you.
When you’re happy and enjoying yourself, you attract more men — they’ll be intrigued by you and your life.
Without even telling him a word, you’ll get his attention when you show off the fabulous night you enjoyed with your gal pals.
9. Working Out And Embracing It
Is there any better place to get a man’s undivided attention than at the gym?
A man loves to see a woman in her fresh and natural beauty while she is focused, working up a sweat and working towards her goals.
Men are certainly there to flex too, but they will not miss you if you’re deadlifting 90 pounds or putting all you’ve got into your bicep exercises.
In the same way, we go gaga for a man who is dedicated to working out, men notice a woman who takes care of herself. See, it’s not really about your looks that attracts him, but that you’re putting in the effort to be healthy and look after yourself.
10. Flirting With Strangers In Front Of Him
Maybe, just maybe, you have been friends with this man you are crushing on for years, but now, you want him to see you as more than his childhood friend.
We’ve seen this happen in Hollywood movies, but do not be fooled into thinking that when a woman flirts with other men in movies and gets the guy that it won’t happen in real life. It can!
Do not be afraid of looking like a fool and being rejected by other men in front of him, because he will adore your confidence, and might also get jealous or fear you won’t be available to him for much longer.
You will get the right attention from him by doing this because it will give him a chance to see how desirable you are and now, he is going to want your attention too.
11. She Uses A Different Voice Around Her Crush
We’ve seen it all on The Bachelor: women talking with fake accents. Some previous contestants opted for smoother and softer tones to get their guy. It is true that when a woman is into a man, and he is around, her tone of voice unintentionally changes.
We have a special tip for you: men find a soothing voice more attractive than a pretty face! You do not even need to directly talk to a man to get his attention and make this trick work. If you are in a group, or nearby, and manipulate your voice, such as by having a slightly higher-pitched voice, he will keep not only his ears open for you but his eyes too.
12. She Brags About Her Culinary Skills
If there is one thing men truly dislike, it is when women do not eat in front of them. Instead, men love women who show off their passion and adoration for food.
The key to his heart? Delicious cooking. Now, how do you get him to notice this about you without having direct communication with him? If you want to get a guy’s attention, show him that you are girlfriend material with your cooking skills in an indirect way.
Do you work with him? Bring in the cupcakes and cookies you made to work for all your colleagues to enjoy. Do you have him on social media? Show off your creations by taking snapshots of your delicious cakes and meals. No words are required to have his five senses heightened.
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